Point is, she's the type of person who cries when she doesn't get what she want. Not in a spoilt rich teen way either. Just in an 'I-spend-too-much-time-around-my-baby-sister-and-am-subconsciously-emulating-her
-actions' kind of way.
Anyway. We're all in this business meeting, and when it comes to her to do something, she just sits there and sulks. Well, basically, she is just unable to perform in these situations. She is fired soon after this happens again after frequent cautions and her own disbelief that anything would happen.
Now, the other friend is a good friend of mine. We're both keen science nerds, and we learnt spanish together for years (admittedly he did so faster than me, but then he's more of a language person). As such, he shall be known as Tio. Tio, and I'm sure he won't mind me saying, also used to be a bit of a social outcast. Used to be. He won't mind me saying, because I'll readily admit that I too was a bit "out there". Anyway. Now he has opened up out of his shell and become a relatively normal member of society (Relatively, because, well, totally normal is boring, and in our social circle, being completely normal is pretty much impossible anyway).
So you can see where wedges ma have been put. Aside from McGregorfan's complete lack of maturity, basically, everyone has moved on without her, and she blames everyone but herself. I did try to get her to socialize more, become more accepting of others, and such like, but it didn't take. So, I gave up and now she has pretty much no-one. Right now, we sound like the bad guys, I see that, but seriously. I you had someone who was doing nothing to help anyone, and basically repelled anyone she came across, would you want to continue associating with them? No. you'd tell them to snap out of it, and get into the game, or failing that, just leave them behind. It's cruel, but necessary.
Anyway, I found recent events particularly amusing, because the two of them had an exchange of emails in which she pretty much proves every point I've made here, and Tio tells her some more 'home truths'. It's all very amusing. I'll post an excerpt. Here you go:
How you can accuse ME of being immature is beyond me. I refrained from telling you in person why i don't like you as, as many have said, you may have clawed my eyes out or done something of that "mature" caliber. But if you really want to know, here goes:
- Your completely childish behaviour, more specifically,
- When i was with Ozzy and didn't talk to yuo [sic] for even a small volume of time you began crying.You really must learn that people do not have to be with you constantly.
- Also, you seem to believe that you are better than everyone else, calling "everyone" in your class clods, when many of them are friends of mine, just because they don't like you and i understand why
- crying when you wanted to put a point across at YE, honestly, when Ozzy, i or any other person who is not socially retarded tries to say something and fails, they persevere, they don't just cry and cause everyone to think they are kids.
2. Just asking for the books back when you know perfectly well that you gave them to me is another prime example of exceeding maturity.
3. When you say you want the books very much as you would use them, it means you want to take up spanish, which is funny as i seem to remember in the last email you said you mother wanted them. I wouldn't be surprised that you are making this all up to try and make me feel sad about "abandoning" you. well i have a big news headline for you i have never been happier. I now have mroe [sic] than just 2 friends and am not frowned upon just because i am your friend.
4. Also, i am at the end of my tether, two years, McGregorfan, 2 years of being thrown snide comments at which i never had before i knew you, being forced to have only you as a friend, and you making me not like everyone, as one of my very good friends has told me today, i wont say his name as you make [sic] hurt him, considering your present mental state, i have come out of my cocoon and he is proud of me as i am now surrounded by people i like and it is reciprocate.
5. Another example of complete and utterly ridicule behaviour, crossing out (name removed)'s name on my notebook was THE most stupd [sic] thing you could do, even for you, it was deemed of a jealous 4 year old with severe brain trauma.
I don't really know why it's funny. I guess it's because I'm a bit of a sadist at heart, and seeing someone get told their flaws that they refuse to see themselves is pretty damn funny.
And with that, Oz is once again out.
[Ozzy still has a bit of godliness about him. But there's nothing like a bit of metal to make you angry at nothing in particular by the end of the song.]
"I can't decide whether you should live or die"

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